Showing posts with label No empty chairs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label No empty chairs. Show all posts

Sunday, 29 November 2015

No empty chairs 2015

Hard to believe that another year without our precious Mumma has come & gone :( That makes 9 years without her beautiful, kind, sweet face here with us now....but one thing that does console our hearts is knowing that she still lives on even though we can't be together just for the moment :)

So 2 weeks ago, on her 9 year anniversary, we had our annual "No empty chairs" celebration :) I love this little tradition that we're up to the 3rd year on now. I know Mumma wanted nothing more than to be with her family forever so it's such a precious reminder each year to make sure that we're on track & doing what we need to be doing to make that happen! So gorgeous to see a special relationship being built for the grandies with Grandma Julie as well, even though they didn't get a chance to meet her in this life xxx


These guys trying to make a house out of wood Uncle Joe had only just sorted under the deck (that's the completed house haha)

Everyone's names on the bookshelf instead of individual chairs this year - LOVE being part of such a big family!!

Aunty Mell had collected special items from around her house & put them in a box so that the kiddies could take turns picking one out & hearing about how that thing reminded us of Grandma. Some of the things were:
- Mummy Bear - GJ bought this for Aunty Mell for her birthday cause she knew how much she loved the Forever Friends bears. Aunty Mell is super lucky to have this as she can give Mummy bear a big hug any time she misses her Mummy & needs to feel close to her 
- Bad kitty jammie pants - used to be Grandma Julie's (before they got claimed by Uncle Jo lol)
- Grandma's wig & scarf thingy that she wore when she had to shave her hair
- The pink lei GJ wore to Grandma Rose's 70th birthday a few months before she died
- Scriptures. GJ always read her scriptures early in the morning, sitting in a chair out in the lounge with the sheepskin rug on her lap
- Children's songbook. This one was a reminder of how we often used to get woken up by Mumma practising her Hymns made easy book. Not the nicest way to start the day, but she was consistent & persistent I'll give her that :)
- Her gym bag - it's always seemed unfair to me that she had to die of lung cancer & so young when she was one of the fittest, most health conscious 50 year olds I know! In the latter years she'd joined the gym & been going at 5:30 in the morning...I mean who does that???!!
- Eleroo & pound puppy were other toys GJ had given to Aunty Mell when she was a kid
- Mrs Bunny was my special soft toy from growing up. Mum used to write me funny letters from her sometimes - when I needed to do things like tidy my room. Miss seeing her writing on things....Love those memories x
- Mell's reverence book. This was another thing where Mell lucked out being the only one Mum made a quiet book for. Such a detailed one too - it must've taken her ages!! 
- Primary partners book - Mumma was so dedicated & caring in her callings & especially when she used to teach a little class back in primary. She totally loved those kids more than just teaching them a lesson on Sunday


Then to finish off everyone got to choose the item they wanted to have their photo taken with. I'm so grateful to have been born to such a special Mumma. She wasn't around for anywhere near as long as I would've liked, but I'd still take her over any other mother that I could've had double the years with any day!!! So thankful that she's mine for eternity & can't wait for the day that we'll see her again!!! Love you my precious Mumma x













p.s Dad was here too, he just didn't want his photo taken - party pooper!!

Thursday, 20 November 2014

No empty chairs 2014 - Celebrating Mama xoxo

Well I had the coolest weekend just this weekend past, Celebrating Mama. Saturday was 8 years since she passed away so I decided that I wanted to be at the temple where I could feel closest to her. I loved the year that Stan & I got to have going down to the temple with Mum & Dad so I always picture us there together every time I go.

The other cool thing about the trip down that day was that I got to have Dad come along as my chauffeur :) Stan & the boys decided not to come since the weather was pretty shocking, so it was really special to be able to have quality time with my Dadda all the way down & back! Of course we had to make the compulsory stops at Pokeno & Mama's Donuts so they made the trip even sweeter too ;)

Then on Sunday afternoon we carried on the weekend with dinner & our 2nd 'No empty chairs' FHE (See our 1st one back in 2012 here). Love being with my fam bam & there's nothing I want more than to be with them for all eternity! Here's all the pics....

All the kids were taking turns trying out the Heke's new exercycle :)

Funny how this boisterous & larger than life 4 year old gets so shy & coy when she's put in the spotlight x

She wanted me to take a photo of her beautiful french braid that Mummy had done for her for church :)

Precious Pod xoxo

Our family definitely wouldn't be as cool without her in it!

Can this cutie boy even see outta those super smiley eyes??!!

If Uncle Stanie's chair was empty we'd have no-one to do the thumbs up in all our photos lol






There was 26 chairs in all for the fam

Everyone cracked up when we realised Uncle Pete was sitting in the high chair lol





Disclaimer: Grandie WAS at this dinner, but he wouldn't allow any photos to be taken so that's why there's none of his handsome face this time round....

Click here to watch Pod's gorgeous talk. I just spent the last half an hour trying to load the youtube clip but it didn't wanna cooperate, so here's the link instead
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06btnrD-BWI   (Make sure you go there - she's so cute!)

After FHE Ella wanted to me to come & see their pretty new duvet covers :) I would love the same cover for my own bed - such a cool colour!


Mac & his dessert bowl - Reeses slice (Stan's 1st attempt), Lemon cheesecake & boysenberry icecream. Yum! 
I forgot to take a photo of our mains, but we had yummy chicken & rice, the chicken salad that everybody loves - but without the chicken lol, rolls & garlic bread. I'm sure Mum would've been more than happy with the delicious spread :)

And then after Grandie had left, it was out to do a few fireworks. (It had to be after he'd left cause otherwise he probably would've reported us to noise control haha)


The Heke kids getting their groove on to the dancing fireworks (there was one that they thought sounded like you should dance to it - what did you guys call that one Mell? I can't remember?)

This little big man loves fireworks these days, but still likes to keep a real distance - unlike his cuzzy, Seffy "no fear" Heke who wanted to be right up in there lighting them all by himself!!


Just a few more sparkler pics. I was hoping to be able to do some words with all us adults there, but the box only had 6 sparklers in it so they had to go to the kids :)

Mell did do a pretty cool heart for me though....

Can't believe it's been a whole 8 years since Mum passed away already. Hate the distance that keeps growing since I saw her last, but so grateful to know that when I see her next, we'll never ever have to be separated again :D Love you forever my precious Mumma xoxo